Contributing editor Jenn also blogs at Mommy Needs Coffee and Mommybloggers.

I was never much of a follower in high school. I was not a part of the "in-crowd" nor was I part of the "losers" or "stoners" or "jocks" or "geeks" or even the "kickers." (That is the country kids for those of you not from the South. If you need, I can explain where that term comes from!) I was clique free. A rebel. A loner. Wait. I wasn't either of those. I was just a girl who got along with everyone. Friends with many in all cliques.