I have written about the so called Mommy Wars here before and how there are some people who insist on pitting mom against mom on the "right" way to parent. To me, that is absolutely ridiculous and unnecessary. Moms have it hard enough in their own minds to be pitted against each other. I found a post that so beautifully shows the internal battle a woman goes through on her own and how that is pressure enough. We don't need anyone else adding to it.