“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Finding a balance between money styles can be harder than negotiating other things in a relationship. After spending two years writing about money, I’ve found it to be one of the more fascinating dynamics between people.

When you’re dating someone, how do you learn about each other’s philosophy with regards to personal finances? My partner and I had the money conversation within the first few months of dating. Most people learn these things as time passes but what if you could cut to the chase and ask your prospective mate 20 questions about money.