It is a cold war that has outlasted the Cold War, and it is talked about just as often, although not in the mainstream media in a frank manner. I’m referring to the war that women wage amongst ourselves, constantly judging how other women live their lives. In feminist circles, we draw lines around class, ethnicity, and sexuality. When it comes to families, we are so busy attacking each other’s child rearing tactics that the damage that we inflict on each other is no better than that which occurs from traditional assaults on women’s rights. While perhaps enough ink has been spilled on the breastfeeding “wars,� I do think that it makes a good case in point.