UPDATED 8.8.06: You may find that it takes up to three weeks to have your blog approved on BlogHer.org. We're sorry for the delay - our '06 conference led to a huge influx. Thanks for your patience - we're working hard to add blogs to the list.
Once you list a blog, you won't see it on the site right away. First your link comes to a managing editor for approval (it's all part of our fight against spam). The blog(s) you list will be published within one week ( Editor's Note: See above caveat) if:

1. Your blog is written by:
- A woman or a group of women
- A man who attended BlogHer Con
- A man whose blogging is of particular quality and relevance to the women who participate in and read BlogHer, as determined by an editor
- Two or more people, women and men, where the blogs by men satisfy the above requirements
2. Your blog contains no unacceptable content
3. Your blog is active (e.g., the blogger must write on it regularly) and you have been blogging longer than 30 days

We aren't performing an audit of each blog in our review process, of course! But we are trying to build a list that serves our community and our mission. So thanks in advance for your help: If you feel that a blog listing needs to be corrected or removed, please use this form.
See also: How do I list a blog in BlogHer's blogrolls? Are there any rules about adding blogs?